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Kama Sutra
Ancient Indian Philosophy of Kama Sutra: Role Reversal
Chapter VIII Kama Sutra - Role Reversal
When a woman sees that her lover is fatigued by constant congress, without
having his desire satisfied, she should, with his permission, lay him down
upon his back, and give him assistance by acting his part. She may also
do this to satisfy the curiosity of her lover, or her own desire of novelty.
There are two ways of doing this, the first is when during congress she
turns round, and gets on the top of her lover, in such a manner as to continue
the congress, without obstructing the pleasure of it; and the other is when
she acts the man's part from the beginning. At such a time, with flowers
in her hair hanging loose, and her smiles broken by hard breathings, she
should press upon her lover's bosom with her own breasts, and lowering her
head frequently, should do in return the same actions which he used to do
before, returning his blows and chaffing him, should say, 'I was laid down
by you, and fatigued with hard congress, I shall now therefore lay you down
in return.' She should then again manifest her own bashfulness, her fatigue,
and her desire of stopping the congress. In this way she should do the work
of a man, which we shall presently relate.
Whatever is done by a man for giving pleasure to a woman is called the work
of a man, and is as follows:
While the woman is lying on his bed, and is as it were abstracted by his
conversation, he should loosen the knot of her undergarments, and when she
begins to dispute with him, he should overwhelm her with kisses. Then when
his lingam is erect he should touch her with his hands in various places,
and gently manipulate various parts of the body. If the woman is bashful,
and if it is the first time that they have come together, the man should
place his hands between her thighs, which she would probably keep close
together, and if she is a very young girl, he should first get his hands
upon her breasts, which she would probably cover with her own hands, and
under her armpits and on her neck. If however she is a seasoned woman, he
should do whatever is agreeable either to him or to her, and whatever is
fitting for the occasion. After this he should take hold of her hair, and
hold her chin in his fingers for the purpose of kissing her. On this, if
she is a young girl, she will become bashful and close her eyes. Anyhow
he should gather from the action of the woman what things would be pleasing
to her during congress.
Here Suvarnanabha says that while a man is doing to the woman what he likes
best during congress, he should always make a point of pressing those parts
of her body on which she turns her eyes.
The signs of the enjoyment and satisfaction of the woman are as follows:
her body relaxes, she closes her eyes, she puts aside all bashfulness, and
shows increased willingness to unite the two organs as closely together
as possible. On the other hand, the signs of her want of enjoyment and of
failing to be satisfied are as follows: she shakes her hands, she does not
let the man get up, feels dejected, bites the man, kicks him, and continues
to go on moving after the man has finished. In such cases the man should
rub the yoni of the woman with his hand and fingers (as the elephant rubs
anything with his trunk) before engaging in congress, until it is softened,
and after that is done he should proceed to put his lingam into her.
The acts to be done by the man are:
Moving forward
Friction or churning
Piercing
Rubbing
Pressing
Giving a blow
The blow of a boar
The blow of a bull
The sporting of a sparrow
When the organs are brought together properly and directly it is called
'moving the organ forward'.
When the lingam is held with the hand, and turned all round in the yoni,
it is called 'churning'.
When the yoni is lowered, and the upper part of it is struck with the lingam,
it is called 'piercing'.
When the same thing is done on the lower part of the yoni, it is called
'rubbing'.
When the yoni is pressed by the lingam for a long time, it is called 'pressing'.
When the lingam is removed to some distance from the yoni, and then forcibly
strikes it, it is called 'giving a blow'.
When only one part of the yoni is rubbed with the lingam, it is called the
'blow of a boar'.
When both sides of the yoni are rubbed in this way, it is called the 'blow
of a bull'.
When the lingam is in the yoni, and moved up and down frequently, and without
being taken out, it is called the 'sporting of a sparrow'. This takes place
at the end of congress.
When a woman acts the part of a man, she has the following things to do
in addition to the nine given above:
The pair of tongs
The top
The swing
When the woman holds the lingam in her yoni, draws it in, presses it, and
keeps it thus in her for a long time, it is called the 'pair of tongs'.
When, while engaged in congress, she turns round like a wheel, it is called
the 'top'. This is learnt by practice only.
When, on such an occasion, the man lifts up the middle part of his body,
and the woman turns round her middle part, it is called the 'swing'.
When the woman is tired, she should place her forehead on that of her lover,
and should thus take rest without disturbing the union of the organs, and
when the woman has rested herself the man should turn round and begin the
congress again.
There are also some verses on the subject as follows:
'Though a woman is reserved, and keeps her feelings concealed; yet when
she gets on the top of a man, she then shows all her love and desire. A
man should gather from the actions of the woman of what disposition she
is, and in what way she likes to be enjoyed. A woman during her monthly
courses, a woman who has been lately confined, and a fat woman should not
be made to act the part of a man.'
The Kama Sutra of Vatsayayana, Sir Richard Burton, translator (1883)
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